That's right. No matter where you are in your relationship or soon-to-be relationship, the information you're about to read can help you on so many levels.
Whether you are -
= Single but actively looking for a serious relationship
= Into the on-line dating scene and want to write a killer ad that attracts great guys
= In a serious relationship for any length of time
= Waiting (impatiently) to move your relationship to the next level
= Already engaged or married and want to remain close and committed
Whether you are -
= Single but actively looking for a serious relationship
= Into the on-line dating scene and want to write a killer ad that attracts great guys
= In a serious relationship for any length of time
= Waiting (impatiently) to move your relationship to the next level
= Already engaged or married and want to remain close and committed
What is the problem?
I sure wish some good solid advice was available to me at so many different times in my life. It would have saved me so much pain and heartache and time convincing myself that something had to be wrong with me.
I can remember going out on a date, or maybe a couple of dates, with a nice guy that I thought was pretty cute. We’d go out and seemed to click and had a good time. But then I never heard from him again. Then I would sit and wait for the phone to ring, all the while convincing myself that I was too old, or weighed too much or wasn't pretty enough or interesting enough to keep him interested. What did I do wrong this time?
Right? Does this sound familiar at all? I can't tell you how many times I've done all of those things.
What I didn't realize is that, more than likely, it was more about HIM than ME. I didn't know, and certainly wasn't tuning in, to the types of conversations and signals I should have been picking up on. Like I said, I wish this information would have been available for me back then.
I can remember going out on a date, or maybe a couple of dates, with a nice guy that I thought was pretty cute. We’d go out and seemed to click and had a good time. But then I never heard from him again. Then I would sit and wait for the phone to ring, all the while convincing myself that I was too old, or weighed too much or wasn't pretty enough or interesting enough to keep him interested. What did I do wrong this time?
Right? Does this sound familiar at all? I can't tell you how many times I've done all of those things.
What I didn't realize is that, more than likely, it was more about HIM than ME. I didn't know, and certainly wasn't tuning in, to the types of conversations and signals I should have been picking up on. Like I said, I wish this information would have been available for me back then.
I think as little girls, most of us dream about meeting this wonderful guy who will love us. We dream about our wedding day and how happy we will be and how beautiful it will be. Happily ever after. Well, life doesn't always turn out the way we think it will. It certainly hasn’t for me.
Not being able to meet the right kinds of guys much less ‘the one,’ can cause a lot of tears, heartbreak, loneliness and desperation in feeling like we'll NEVER be able to meet a nice guy to settle down with, share our lives and start a family.
Not being able to meet the right kinds of guys much less ‘the one,’ can cause a lot of tears, heartbreak, loneliness and desperation in feeling like we'll NEVER be able to meet a nice guy to settle down with, share our lives and start a family.
It doesn't seem like much to ask, yet it can be one of the most challenging and downright difficult things to accomplish.
There are a lot of reasons why we'd like to meet a special man and have him fall madly in love with us and actually WANT to be with us and commit to marriage.
There are so many people searching for the one. Have you seen how many dating sites there are these days?
People seem to just have a hard time connecting with each other and it’s so very important to be able to understand things from the others point of view and way of thinking. Once you can master that skill, you will have a much easier time of meeting great guys and
connecting with them on a really intimate level.
There are a lot of reasons why we'd like to meet a special man and have him fall madly in love with us and actually WANT to be with us and commit to marriage.
There are so many people searching for the one. Have you seen how many dating sites there are these days?
People seem to just have a hard time connecting with each other and it’s so very important to be able to understand things from the others point of view and way of thinking. Once you can master that skill, you will have a much easier time of meeting great guys and
connecting with them on a really intimate level.
What are some of the reasons you want to get your man to commit? There are certainly many reasons, but some of the most common may include -
Wanting to settle down and raise a family
If you have your heart set on kids and the family life, then a commited marriage is probably the biggest goal on your list.
When you are younger, it's not such a big deal, but as you get older, you hear the tick-tock of the biological clock. When you hit your mid-30's or so, that ticking can be deafening.
You begin to realize that if you are going to have kids, you better get moving. If you aren't in a relationship at all, it can become an even bigger issue because you still have to meet the father of your children.
You don't have time for games and men that aren't serious. You don't have time to waste.
Not to make it sound like a clinical, business-type of thing, but seriously, who wants to waste months or years of your life on someone who just doesn't seem interested in getting married? This can be extremely disheartening for women who want to start their families now.
Don't you WANT to marry me?
Another big thing is that no one wants to force anyone to do anything they don't want to do.
You want to feel like your future groom is ready, willing, able and excited about spending the rest of his life with you.
If you feel like you're dragging him down the aisle, or guilting him into a marriage for some other reason, then it's not really going to be the loving, committed and long-term marriage you really want deep down inside.
You want to feel like your future groom is ready, willing, able and excited about spending the rest of his life with you.
If you feel like you're dragging him down the aisle, or guilting him into a marriage for some other reason, then it's not really going to be the loving, committed and long-term marriage you really want deep down inside.
It's hard to do this all by myself...
Another key factor here is that the relationship you want should not be one-sided. You shouldn't
have to do all the work, with nothing in return.
I remember my first marriage and when people would ask me why it ended, my response was always, "It was hard to be married all by myself." And you know what? It's hard to be in ANY relationship where you are putting forth all the effort and doing all the work.
If your man just "shows up" without really even trying, then eventually you will grow tired of it, become
resentful and more than likely, the relationship will end.
Unless you like doing all the work...
Sometimes, as you will learn, love and attraction just aren't enough to keep a relationship together or move it to the next level.
have to do all the work, with nothing in return.
I remember my first marriage and when people would ask me why it ended, my response was always, "It was hard to be married all by myself." And you know what? It's hard to be in ANY relationship where you are putting forth all the effort and doing all the work.
If your man just "shows up" without really even trying, then eventually you will grow tired of it, become
resentful and more than likely, the relationship will end.
Unless you like doing all the work...
Sometimes, as you will learn, love and attraction just aren't enough to keep a relationship together or move it to the next level.
Never having to s-e-t-t-l-e
You want and DESERVE a relationship that is filled with mutual respect, trust, devotion and commitment.
You don't think so? That's another huge roadblock to walking down the aisle.
Some women set their bar so low, or have such low self esteem, they actually do not believe or feel that they deserve a satisfying relationship. You usually tend to attract what you believe deep down, so if you don't truly believe you deserve nothing but the best, you will get what you believe you deserve.
You don't think so? That's another huge roadblock to walking down the aisle.
Some women set their bar so low, or have such low self esteem, they actually do not believe or feel that they deserve a satisfying relationship. You usually tend to attract what you believe deep down, so if you don't truly believe you deserve nothing but the best, you will get what you believe you deserve.
Am I better with him...or without him?
Have you ever experienced this scenario.
Why is it that if you are really into a guy, he treats you like dirt. On the other hand, there are guys you could care less about who would walk 500 miles just to make sure you get home safely at night.
One of my favorite men tactics is the "just keep being as mean as possible and eventually she will get
the hint and go away" routine. Have you ever experienced this, if only for a short time before you
walked away?
Instead of just saying that he's not interested or it's not working out, he will be so rude and mean to you that you will eventually grow tired of being treated like crap and lose his number. That has to be one of the worst things guys can do, as far as I'm concerned. But there is a way to pick up on signals and what he's saying between the lines to avoid situations like this altogether.
If it's not going in the direction you need it to go, why waste any more of your precious time?
I know it's hard for anyone to break off a relationship, or be brutally (but gently) honest enough to say it's not working out. But, and I'm borrowing this from a movie line, would you rather take a bullet to the head, or get wounded and suffer while you bleed to death?
Either way, the end result is the same. Know when it's time to move on, without putting yourself through agony and beating yourself up for not being able to turn something into a loving, committed relationship.
Now you can have the insight and confidence to end a going-nowhere relationship to free yourself up for our goal of GIRL GETS RING.
Why is it that if you are really into a guy, he treats you like dirt. On the other hand, there are guys you could care less about who would walk 500 miles just to make sure you get home safely at night.
One of my favorite men tactics is the "just keep being as mean as possible and eventually she will get
the hint and go away" routine. Have you ever experienced this, if only for a short time before you
walked away?
Instead of just saying that he's not interested or it's not working out, he will be so rude and mean to you that you will eventually grow tired of being treated like crap and lose his number. That has to be one of the worst things guys can do, as far as I'm concerned. But there is a way to pick up on signals and what he's saying between the lines to avoid situations like this altogether.
If it's not going in the direction you need it to go, why waste any more of your precious time?
I know it's hard for anyone to break off a relationship, or be brutally (but gently) honest enough to say it's not working out. But, and I'm borrowing this from a movie line, would you rather take a bullet to the head, or get wounded and suffer while you bleed to death?
Either way, the end result is the same. Know when it's time to move on, without putting yourself through agony and beating yourself up for not being able to turn something into a loving, committed relationship.
Now you can have the insight and confidence to end a going-nowhere relationship to free yourself up for our goal of GIRL GETS RING.
So those are some of the reasons you want to find out exactly what is going on inside a man's head, and speak his speak.
When you can understand and communicate effectively with a man, you have a huge advantage over a lot - and I mean a lot - of other women out there.
When you can understand and communicate effectively with a man, you have a huge advantage over a lot - and I mean a lot - of other women out there.
The good news is that here you will find some great advice - and an even better program - to help you with all this stuff. Introducing the program that can help you read his signals, speak his speak, and finally get the man of your dreams to commit.
Finally understanding how he thinks and what he's really saying
That's right. We want the ring on your finger.
Not just living together
Not seeing each other when you're in town
Not a booty call at 2 AM
Not waiting for the phone to ring
Not one disappointing relationship after another
We're talking committed, serious stuff here as in -
Not just living together
Not seeing each other when you're in town
Not a booty call at 2 AM
Not waiting for the phone to ring
Not one disappointing relationship after another
We're talking committed, serious stuff here as in -
Are there really commitment phobic men or is it something else?
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